Not in charge
There is a strange thing about wanting to control what is going on with others. We become very critical. Suspiciously so. That is not the way in God’s new plan for our life. We are not in charge of how others live out their faith in our Master Jesus.
We are to be partners with our brothers and sisters. We are to work along side them. We should be joyful, expecting the next good thing in their life. They stand on their own faith in Jesus. Certainly not by mine or yours. And we can’t control them.